"Worth Revisiting" Wednesday - One of Those Difficult Questions: Do You Love Your Family More Than God?
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One of Those Difficult Questions: Do You Love Your Family More Than God?
(Originally posted July 16, 2014)
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I should have written this little
reflection when the Gospel reading was taken from Matthew (10:35-39).
I did not want to. Why? I am a coward. That specific Scripture makes me uncomfortable. Does it have the same impact on you? It is another one of Jesus’ “hard sayings” and one that at times we no doubt have had difficulty following.
Jesus minces no words. He intended
to make us uncomfortable. First, our Lord tells us that if we love our family
more than God, we are not worthy of Him. Secondly, He informs us, that it will
often be our very own family members, those we love dearly, who will jeopardize
our spiritual well-being and salvation by insisting that we ignore God and
please them.
Wow! What a reality check and
challenge!
None of us want familial discord.
But we must serve God, putting Him first in all things, and above all
individuals, even our families. We must obey Him despite ridicule and
persecution for doing so, and even in the face of the disharmony and turmoil
such obedience to Him may initially cause in our family and among its members.
The choices Jesus places before
us are often frighteningly difficult. This is most certainly one of them. God
must be first. There can be no exceptions – not even a well-intentioned desire
to maintain “peace” in our families.
Any “peace” purchased at the
price of putting our families first and God and His law second is no real “peace”
at all. It is a path to spiritual and eternal death.
This is an impossible Truth to
live, we say? We would be correct if we thought we had to rely solely on ourselves
and our weakened human nature. God never asks us to do something without giving
us the grace and means to do it.
In fact, if we love Him more than
our loved ones here on earth, we will be loving them in the most efficacious
and effective manner and exactly as God intended us to do.
Knowing this Truth will not necessarily make it any easier to live it.
So we pray: Lord God forgive us for the times we have placed ourselves and others ahead of You or insisted that members of our family do so. Please give us and our families the courage, wisdom and grace to always put You first, trusting that by doing so, You will work out everything for the best.
So we pray: Lord God forgive us for the times we have placed ourselves and others ahead of You or insisted that members of our family do so. Please give us and our families the courage, wisdom and grace to always put You first, trusting that by doing so, You will work out everything for the best.